Sarah decided that she needed to get her two captives ready for bed, so she removed them one at a time from the living room. Sarah took Emma up stairs first, told her to lie on the bed and not to try anything funny. Emma’s hands were still tied behind her back restraining her from making any attacking effort against Sarah. Sarah took Emma into a bedroom that had a large double bed in the middle with plenty of room round the outside of it. The bed was a four poster wooden framed bed; there were runs of wooden legs between the base and the top board at both ends of the bed with the head top board slightly bigger than the bottom. Sarah lay and tied Emma’s feet on the top of the bottom board with more socks so they were in the suspended vulnerably in the air tied tightly to the board to stop her from pulling them away. Sarah tied Emma’s hands above her head to the top board; Sarah then took out Lucy’s socks out of Emma’s mouth and then put a similar gag to what Lucy was wearing into her mouth. Sarah admired her handy work and smiled, Emma lay on the bed in just her underwear unable to move. Sarah left the room, “just going to get your play mate, back soon.”
Lucy lay on the table struggling to get out before Sarah returned, then suddenly her efforts were rewarded one of her hand restraints came loose. Lucy got her other hand free then began to untie her feet; Sarah crept up behind Lucy quietly. Lucy got her last foot free, ready to make tracks she reached back to take the gag out when her hands were grabbed and she was pushed to the floor then dragged by her hair up the stairs. Pushed into the room Emma was in onto the bed, before Lucy could re-act Sarah had hand cuffed her to then top board while she prepared to tie Lucy with the socks she had from the table. “Thank you Lucy you saved me the trouble of untying you”
Sarah tied Lucy exactly the same way Emma was, and left her feet in a vulnerable position too. Sarah removed the handcuffs once Lucy’s hands were secure, and moved to the bottom of the bed. “Now you two will be spending the night like this, however before I go to bed I will spend some time with your lovely pairs of feet.” The two girls wriggled trying to get away with no chance of escape.
Sarah knelt in front of their feet as they were wriggling, and stroke the outside foot of both of them then the inside one. She caressed each of their feet in turn, going around the outline, then in-between their toes, then down the sole of the foot feeling every part with her hand. Sarah was getting more excited as she continued both of the girl’s seemed aroused to as Sarah continued they moaned into their gags. Sarah then notice something she had missed, Lucy had a toe ring on. Sarah began to suck Emma’s toes first; she had already had Lucy’s but had no intention of leaving her out. Sarah went over both of them several times, then licked the soles their feet several times as well, once finished she stood up the girls were still enjoying the sensations from their feet.
“Night girls, it’s been great but I need some sleep. Your both going to spend the night here, I have a whole weekend to look forward to and you’re not escaping.” She then pulled out two vibrators, and used them on both of them turning them on high. They both lay moaning on the bed; Sarah walked out and came back with water for both of them, after giving them that she then walked towards the door again “night” she said turning the light off.
Lucy struggled to gain control of her senses throughout the night unable to release the vibrator that continued to make her lose control every 15 minutes. It was not helping that Emma was losing control almost every 10 minutes so it was beginning to take its toll on Lucy who decided it was time for a little pay back. In Lucy’s mind everything she had gone through so far was warranted for what she had done to Sarah only this was a step to far all night like this. Time for some pay back Lucy thought as she broke loose from the socks that were binding her, taking out the gag that had kept her jaw in a set position for so long and looked at Emma who was in no state to challenge her.
“Emma you help Sarah, look at me what have I ever done to you?”
Emma groaned into her gag, “Sarah is going to find out what it’s like to hold some one captive”
Lucy crept off quietly out of the room, she heard Sarah snoring in a side room nearby and put hand inside the door to reach the handle to pull it gently when she felt something metal hanging on it. Lucy grabbed the metal before it hit the floor from her knocking it from the door handle, realising it was the handcuffs and that Sarah had clearly place them there to fall if the door moved. Unfortunately for Sarah she had just handed Lucy the equipment she needed to overpower her foe, Lucy tip toed silently towards the bed. She pulled the quilt down as the lights came on, and a clapping sound from behind her. Lucy quickly swirled round on her toes to see Sarah behind her and looked in dismay.
“Lucy did you really think I would let you get free so easily?” Sarah grinned
“What are you doing over there?” Lucy said in shock
“Well I knew eventually you would try an escape, a bit sooner than I had thought but none the less a good effort on your part.”
“I could easily overpower you.” Lucy said confidently
Sarah smiled “You could but I have an advantage.” Sarah pushed a button in here hand. Lucy fell straight to the floor with only her toes twitching.
“You see Lucy I want complete control over you and by the time this weekend is over your be my obedient Slave”
“wwwhahaat haaavee yoouu dooonnee toooo mmeee?”
“I just zapped you with a mild but effective electric shock”
“wwwwhaahat abboouut Emmmaaaa?”
“She’s getting the same treatment, your both be completely house trained and at my control”
Sarah laughed and dragged Lucy back to the room she was previously, Sarah hogtied her tightly with rope and gagged Lucy with her old socks from earlier. We begin the training tomorrow.....
To be continued in Slave Training.
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Thursday, October 1, 2009
Sock Bondage Part 2
Lucy woke up early the next day, only she remembers being in bed with a vibrator going and not in the boot of Sarah’s car last night. Lucy was still gagged, her hands and feet were still tied with the same socks and she was still only wearing underwear. Lucy wondered whether anyone noticed Sarah getting Lucy’s bound sort of naked body to the car, then her mind wondered to how Sarah carried her as she was light but Sarah would of struggled. Lucy had no concept of time no watch and was tied in a boot so it was hard to tell whether she had been there for hours already or just a little while.
The car stopped once or twice Lucy lost track as some of the stop were longer than others, she was unsure whether the car was parked or stuck in traffic. The boot was fairly warm it was the summer, and it appeared to be a nice day as when Lucy accidently touches the metal of the boot with her foot it gave her a sharp burning sensation which she pulled away quickly from. Eventually the car came to a full stop the car door slammed shut, and all went quite around her. Lucy had no idea where she was or what Sarah had planned.
After what seemed to Lucy was a life time the boot finally opened, the light blind her eyes and she struggled as she could not see then it went black again as a sock was tied over her eyes as a blindfold. Lucy was carried slowly, she had no idea where she was heading, she knew one thing however Sarah was no longer alone as Lucy was being carried by two people. Eventually Lucy was put down on a metal surface which after being hot most of the day sent a shiver down her spine. Lucy lay still while she was untied all except her wrist, she didn’t run as she had no idea where she was. Lucy was tied down to this surface after several attempts at trying to break free she resigned to the fact she wasn’t getting out. Then her blindfold was removed.
Lucy’s eye’s adjusted to the light; she looked down to see that her underwear had been change to pink bra and green thong. Lucy looked around she appeared to be lay on a table in the centre of a room, her hand tied with socks varying in colours to the legs of the table above her and the same was done with Lucy’s ankles at the bottom end of the table, her waist and knee’s had been strapped down with socks to prevent Lucy from lifting off the table. Lucy just wanted to scream only the ball gag prevented it, then to faces appeared looking down at her one was Sarah and the other one was Emma a good friend to Sarah. Emma was slightly short compared to Sarah had her hair in a ponytail, with a t-shirt, jogging bottoms and was barefoot. Lucy could only see the top half of both of them; Lucy just stared intensely at Sarah with a slight anger in her eyes. Sarah lent down removed the ball gag and before Lucy could say a world Emma put in a metal jaw opener forcing Lucy’s mouth open.
Emma looked at Lucy and said laughing “You’re making too much mess with that ball gag; this will help you control yourself better” putting her figures in the hole, then pulling Lucy’s head up and pouring some water into her mouth.
“That should help. Now Sarah tells me your all ours for the weekend as you carelessly left your diary detailing your days off and no plans, but that’s OK we have plenty of plans for you.” Emma and Sarah walked away from Lucy laughing. Lucy just wondered what they had planned as she lay there motionless. Next thing she knows she hears a bang as if someone had just fallen to the floor, struggling to look Lucy was unable to see, so she lay there wondering what possibly could of happened.
Lucy was waiting patiently to find out what had happened unable to move herself she lay awaiting the revelation of what had occurred behind her. Lucy heard some grunting and then Sarah appeared in her line of sight dragging Emma by her ankles. “I’m not sharing you Lucy, your all mine I just needed help getting you here so I recruited Emma, but alas she is no longer needed in that capacity so I will have another play thing.” Lucy just looked at her and groaned in the gag.
Sarah got to work on securing Emma firstly removing her clothing down to her underwear, all Lucy could do is lay and watch as Sarah begun to tie Emma’s hands behind her back. Sarah was using more multi coloured football socks to tie Emma, she continued by tying Emma’s ankles and then put her into hogtie. Sarah then pulled a pair of sock out that Lucy recognised straight away they were the ones she had worn all day yesterday before being attacked by Sarah. Sarah then proceeded to place the socks into Emma’s mouth and tie them in place with two other socks. Emma slowly started to come to as she finished tying her up; Emma struggled but was tied to tight for her to get loose.
“Well, look what I have here two captives and what to do with you both. Emma thanks for the help, however you are now part of my game for the weekend. Lucy don’t worry my attention will not be diverted I’m still going to spend plenty of time on you.” Sarah laughed and walked away to get some stuff, both the girls struggled with their bonds but eventually gave up. They were both unsure of what was going to happen next.
Sarah came back into the room with a glass of yellow and orangey liquid, looking at Lucy who’s mouth was being pushed wide open by the gag. “Here Lucy I have a drink for you” and poured it into her mouth. Lucy moved her head side to side trying to avoid the liquid, Sarah held Lucy’s forehead with one hand as she poured the remainder in. Lucy coughed has the liquid went down her throat, which sounded more like a grunting noise and struggled against her bonds. Emma looked as if she was laughing, knowing full well it would not happen to her. “What you laughing for? I have something for you to.” Sarah lent over to Emma’s feet and started to tickle them all over, Emma rolled around the floor in a laughing fit. Sarah stopped and started to walk away.
“I’m no were near done with you two yet.” Sarah laughed.
The car stopped once or twice Lucy lost track as some of the stop were longer than others, she was unsure whether the car was parked or stuck in traffic. The boot was fairly warm it was the summer, and it appeared to be a nice day as when Lucy accidently touches the metal of the boot with her foot it gave her a sharp burning sensation which she pulled away quickly from. Eventually the car came to a full stop the car door slammed shut, and all went quite around her. Lucy had no idea where she was or what Sarah had planned.
After what seemed to Lucy was a life time the boot finally opened, the light blind her eyes and she struggled as she could not see then it went black again as a sock was tied over her eyes as a blindfold. Lucy was carried slowly, she had no idea where she was heading, she knew one thing however Sarah was no longer alone as Lucy was being carried by two people. Eventually Lucy was put down on a metal surface which after being hot most of the day sent a shiver down her spine. Lucy lay still while she was untied all except her wrist, she didn’t run as she had no idea where she was. Lucy was tied down to this surface after several attempts at trying to break free she resigned to the fact she wasn’t getting out. Then her blindfold was removed.
Lucy’s eye’s adjusted to the light; she looked down to see that her underwear had been change to pink bra and green thong. Lucy looked around she appeared to be lay on a table in the centre of a room, her hand tied with socks varying in colours to the legs of the table above her and the same was done with Lucy’s ankles at the bottom end of the table, her waist and knee’s had been strapped down with socks to prevent Lucy from lifting off the table. Lucy just wanted to scream only the ball gag prevented it, then to faces appeared looking down at her one was Sarah and the other one was Emma a good friend to Sarah. Emma was slightly short compared to Sarah had her hair in a ponytail, with a t-shirt, jogging bottoms and was barefoot. Lucy could only see the top half of both of them; Lucy just stared intensely at Sarah with a slight anger in her eyes. Sarah lent down removed the ball gag and before Lucy could say a world Emma put in a metal jaw opener forcing Lucy’s mouth open.
Emma looked at Lucy and said laughing “You’re making too much mess with that ball gag; this will help you control yourself better” putting her figures in the hole, then pulling Lucy’s head up and pouring some water into her mouth.
“That should help. Now Sarah tells me your all ours for the weekend as you carelessly left your diary detailing your days off and no plans, but that’s OK we have plenty of plans for you.” Emma and Sarah walked away from Lucy laughing. Lucy just wondered what they had planned as she lay there motionless. Next thing she knows she hears a bang as if someone had just fallen to the floor, struggling to look Lucy was unable to see, so she lay there wondering what possibly could of happened.
Lucy was waiting patiently to find out what had happened unable to move herself she lay awaiting the revelation of what had occurred behind her. Lucy heard some grunting and then Sarah appeared in her line of sight dragging Emma by her ankles. “I’m not sharing you Lucy, your all mine I just needed help getting you here so I recruited Emma, but alas she is no longer needed in that capacity so I will have another play thing.” Lucy just looked at her and groaned in the gag.
Sarah got to work on securing Emma firstly removing her clothing down to her underwear, all Lucy could do is lay and watch as Sarah begun to tie Emma’s hands behind her back. Sarah was using more multi coloured football socks to tie Emma, she continued by tying Emma’s ankles and then put her into hogtie. Sarah then pulled a pair of sock out that Lucy recognised straight away they were the ones she had worn all day yesterday before being attacked by Sarah. Sarah then proceeded to place the socks into Emma’s mouth and tie them in place with two other socks. Emma slowly started to come to as she finished tying her up; Emma struggled but was tied to tight for her to get loose.
“Well, look what I have here two captives and what to do with you both. Emma thanks for the help, however you are now part of my game for the weekend. Lucy don’t worry my attention will not be diverted I’m still going to spend plenty of time on you.” Sarah laughed and walked away to get some stuff, both the girls struggled with their bonds but eventually gave up. They were both unsure of what was going to happen next.
Sarah came back into the room with a glass of yellow and orangey liquid, looking at Lucy who’s mouth was being pushed wide open by the gag. “Here Lucy I have a drink for you” and poured it into her mouth. Lucy moved her head side to side trying to avoid the liquid, Sarah held Lucy’s forehead with one hand as she poured the remainder in. Lucy coughed has the liquid went down her throat, which sounded more like a grunting noise and struggled against her bonds. Emma looked as if she was laughing, knowing full well it would not happen to her. “What you laughing for? I have something for you to.” Sarah lent over to Emma’s feet and started to tickle them all over, Emma rolled around the floor in a laughing fit. Sarah stopped and started to walk away.
“I’m no were near done with you two yet.” Sarah laughed.
Sock Bondage Part 1
Lucy was a young grad student from Canterbury University, she had long blonde hair about 5ft 10in tall. Today Lucy had choose to wear a pair of blue jeans, and light blue blouse and pair of woolie blue socks and blue trainers, Lucy was obsessed that everything had to match. She was heading home after a long day at uni, her flat wasn't far off campus so she tended to walk most places. Opening the door to her flat to see Sarah her flat mate, Sarah was of similar build to Lucy a little stronger but essential the same. Sarah was more disorganised though and did not go with Lucy's everything has to match philosophy. She was wearing a pair of black jeans, pink t-shirt and was barefoot.
"Hi Lucy How was your day?"
"Tiring" Lucy replied
"Here this will liven you up a bit" as Sarah hands Lucy a cup of tea
"What do you want?" Lucy looked at Sarah suspectly.
"Can't I do something nice for my flat mate?"
"I thought you would be busy planning revenge after last night?"
Lucy had locked the front door of the flat before Sarah had got back last night, resulting in Sarah sleeping outside in her car all night.
"No No we all make mistakes, don't we?" Sarah smiled as she said it.
Lucy drank her tea, Sarah watched with anticipation. Lucy sat thinking for a moment, then began to feel really tired. "I think I need to go to bed" Lucy said has she stumbled to her room and collapsed on the bed. Sarah was right behind her and knelt down by Lucy's bed and looked into her eyes.
"Whathaveyoudonetome?" Lucy struggled to get out
"Well your mistake was a little bigger than most, I didn't deserve that last night so I put a sleeping pill in your tea, your be asleep for a good few hours plenty of time for me to get my revenge, I saw on the rota that your off tomorrow so a whole day with you how exciting."
Lucy shut her eyes and fell asleep. Sarah left her for a moment, then returned with a bag of stuff.
"Lucy you won't be happy but this has to be done."
Sarah gets to work, she removes all of lucy's clothes having seen her naked before it didn't matter to her. She then pulled out a black bra and pink thong and put them on Lucy knowing that would annoy her. She pulled out various cloured tube socks. Sarah began tying Lucy's wristed together with a pair of socks, then used another one to tie inbetween then did the same to Lucy's ankles. Sarah admired Lucy's feet for a minute then continued to put Lucy into a hogtie with some more socks, Lucy's knee's and elbows were both tied as well. Sarah stepped back and admired her handy work, satified she walked away out of the room and awaited Lucy to wake up.
Lucy slowly woke up feeling very groggy, a bit like a bear with a sore head. She then tried to move and found she was unable to; she struggled for a while against her bonds wriggling and rolling about. She then shouted out “Sarah what have you done to me?”
Sarah was leaning on the door frame to Lucy’s room; in her hand was a red ball gag that she was holding by the strap. “Lucy my dear do you have any idea how long I have wanted to do this? You always tease me with your feet; never take your socks off around the flat just constantly showing of your socks. Well now I have you tied with socks and barefoot, that’s ..... oh you know when the situation is reversed can’t remember the name.”
Struggling to move Lucy said “Is that it you’ve done this so you can spend time admiring my feet, you could of just asked.”
Sarah interrupted “and you would have said NO! So now you have no choice.”
Sarah moved towards her Lucy began to say “How long do you...hmmmmhhmmmm?” As Sarah put the ball gag into Lucy’s mouth and tied it back tight.
“For as long as I want to Lucy, you’re tied up you’re in no position to argue.”
“mmmmppphhhh” Lucy moaned into the gag.
Sarah moved round to behind Lucy, She watched Sarah intently until she was out of view. Nervously waiting what was going to happen, she then notices her underwear and start going crazy through her gag. Sarah just waited patiently for Lucy to calm down; eventually she did. Lucy felt the soles of her feet being slowly stroked it felt strange the last time her feet were touched by anyone else was when her dad use to tickle her when she was younger. The stroking tickled a bit so she giggled a bit into her gag, Sarah began to tickle Lucy’s feet for a while wearing her down so her resistant’s was low to what she had planned next. After a whole hour of tickling with no breaks, Lucy was tired from giggling in the gag and had dribbled a lot through the gag.
“Look at you, you mucky puppy” Sarah wiped her mouth clean. Lucy lay still too tired to move now, Sarah moved to her feet again with nail varnish remover. “I never thought you would bother with nail varnish, no one see’s your feet what’s the point unless it was to impress a boy!” Sarah giggled to herself, and then slowly wiped the varnish off. “Lucy listen to me, you now know I have a foot fetish so until you agree to never wear socks in the flat again you’re going to get tortured and I have so many toys to try on you, I promise by tomorrow I will break you.”
Lucy’s eyes widen and she moaned into the gag. Sarah moved back to Lucy’s feet, began to lick the soles of Lucy’s feet up and down on both of them. Lucy began wiggling her toes and trying to move away until Sarah grabbed some string tied Lucy’s big toes together and then pulled it tight towards her ankles stretching out the soles of her feet. Lucy moaned but stopped moving surrendering due to tiredness from the tickle. Sarah then continued to lick Lucy’s feet, once she had done all over both feet, Sarah focussed on Lucy’s toes starting to suck them, Lucy moaned into the gag as if she was enjoying the stimulation to her feet. Then suddenly Sarah got up. “Right Lucy time for bed, you’re staying tied tonight but I will release you from being hogtied.”
Sarah released the socks holding Lucy’s hands and feet together, turned Lucy over on her back and place a vibrator into her. “I let you have something to think about overnight.” And switched the vibrator on, Lucy immediately moaned into the gag both with pleasure and anger at her roommate. Sarah walked out, switched the light off and said “Night Lucy enjoy”
"Hi Lucy How was your day?"
"Tiring" Lucy replied
"Here this will liven you up a bit" as Sarah hands Lucy a cup of tea
"What do you want?" Lucy looked at Sarah suspectly.
"Can't I do something nice for my flat mate?"
"I thought you would be busy planning revenge after last night?"
Lucy had locked the front door of the flat before Sarah had got back last night, resulting in Sarah sleeping outside in her car all night.
"No No we all make mistakes, don't we?" Sarah smiled as she said it.
Lucy drank her tea, Sarah watched with anticipation. Lucy sat thinking for a moment, then began to feel really tired. "I think I need to go to bed" Lucy said has she stumbled to her room and collapsed on the bed. Sarah was right behind her and knelt down by Lucy's bed and looked into her eyes.
"Whathaveyoudonetome?" Lucy struggled to get out
"Well your mistake was a little bigger than most, I didn't deserve that last night so I put a sleeping pill in your tea, your be asleep for a good few hours plenty of time for me to get my revenge, I saw on the rota that your off tomorrow so a whole day with you how exciting."
Lucy shut her eyes and fell asleep. Sarah left her for a moment, then returned with a bag of stuff.
"Lucy you won't be happy but this has to be done."
Sarah gets to work, she removes all of lucy's clothes having seen her naked before it didn't matter to her. She then pulled out a black bra and pink thong and put them on Lucy knowing that would annoy her. She pulled out various cloured tube socks. Sarah began tying Lucy's wristed together with a pair of socks, then used another one to tie inbetween then did the same to Lucy's ankles. Sarah admired Lucy's feet for a minute then continued to put Lucy into a hogtie with some more socks, Lucy's knee's and elbows were both tied as well. Sarah stepped back and admired her handy work, satified she walked away out of the room and awaited Lucy to wake up.
Lucy slowly woke up feeling very groggy, a bit like a bear with a sore head. She then tried to move and found she was unable to; she struggled for a while against her bonds wriggling and rolling about. She then shouted out “Sarah what have you done to me?”
Sarah was leaning on the door frame to Lucy’s room; in her hand was a red ball gag that she was holding by the strap. “Lucy my dear do you have any idea how long I have wanted to do this? You always tease me with your feet; never take your socks off around the flat just constantly showing of your socks. Well now I have you tied with socks and barefoot, that’s ..... oh you know when the situation is reversed can’t remember the name.”
Struggling to move Lucy said “Is that it you’ve done this so you can spend time admiring my feet, you could of just asked.”
Sarah interrupted “and you would have said NO! So now you have no choice.”
Sarah moved towards her Lucy began to say “How long do you...hmmmmhhmmmm?” As Sarah put the ball gag into Lucy’s mouth and tied it back tight.
“For as long as I want to Lucy, you’re tied up you’re in no position to argue.”
“mmmmppphhhh” Lucy moaned into the gag.
Sarah moved round to behind Lucy, She watched Sarah intently until she was out of view. Nervously waiting what was going to happen, she then notices her underwear and start going crazy through her gag. Sarah just waited patiently for Lucy to calm down; eventually she did. Lucy felt the soles of her feet being slowly stroked it felt strange the last time her feet were touched by anyone else was when her dad use to tickle her when she was younger. The stroking tickled a bit so she giggled a bit into her gag, Sarah began to tickle Lucy’s feet for a while wearing her down so her resistant’s was low to what she had planned next. After a whole hour of tickling with no breaks, Lucy was tired from giggling in the gag and had dribbled a lot through the gag.
“Look at you, you mucky puppy” Sarah wiped her mouth clean. Lucy lay still too tired to move now, Sarah moved to her feet again with nail varnish remover. “I never thought you would bother with nail varnish, no one see’s your feet what’s the point unless it was to impress a boy!” Sarah giggled to herself, and then slowly wiped the varnish off. “Lucy listen to me, you now know I have a foot fetish so until you agree to never wear socks in the flat again you’re going to get tortured and I have so many toys to try on you, I promise by tomorrow I will break you.”
Lucy’s eyes widen and she moaned into the gag. Sarah moved back to Lucy’s feet, began to lick the soles of Lucy’s feet up and down on both of them. Lucy began wiggling her toes and trying to move away until Sarah grabbed some string tied Lucy’s big toes together and then pulled it tight towards her ankles stretching out the soles of her feet. Lucy moaned but stopped moving surrendering due to tiredness from the tickle. Sarah then continued to lick Lucy’s feet, once she had done all over both feet, Sarah focussed on Lucy’s toes starting to suck them, Lucy moaned into the gag as if she was enjoying the stimulation to her feet. Then suddenly Sarah got up. “Right Lucy time for bed, you’re staying tied tonight but I will release you from being hogtied.”
Sarah released the socks holding Lucy’s hands and feet together, turned Lucy over on her back and place a vibrator into her. “I let you have something to think about overnight.” And switched the vibrator on, Lucy immediately moaned into the gag both with pleasure and anger at her roommate. Sarah walked out, switched the light off and said “Night Lucy enjoy”
Bondage - A Beginners Guide
Bondage is often misunderstood and occasionally maligned. Those two facts are not unconnected so before proceeding any further I will explain my take on bondage and why it is something that whilst not for everyone, can form part of a varied and healthy sexual relationship.
It is important that everyone who indulges in bondage play remembers two things. First and most importantly that everyone involved in your bondage play must consent at every stage. Consent cannot be assumed - it must be explicitly and freely given. Secondly, a safe word must be agreed upon by all participants. If speech is impaired during play some other form of safe signal would probably be appropriate. Without the ability for participants to withdraw consent at any time you run the risk of turning what can be an exciting adventure of sexual exploration into an unpleasant and distressing experience.
I would like to dispel the myth that bondage is about inflicting pain and discomfort. It can involve both, but the psychological aspects of bondage are often far more potent and important for most people. The simple act of restricting someone's movements by using your own body to pin them down, tying them up with a silk scarf, shackling them with restraints or binding them in bondage tape are all facets of bondage and all have one thing in common - the transfer of control from one partner to the other.
Sometimes called "power exchange" this is the most potent aspect of bondage and the wider elements of BDSM. To allow someone total control over your will requires that you trust them completely.
Physical bondage is the aspect of bondage that most people will think of when they consider introducing the idea of bondage play to their partner. It is best to begin with something simple and none threatening like an old tie or a scarf. Incidentally, it might be a good idea to use a scarf you no longer care for as bondage play can get quite physical and a well loved scarf may become a little bit distressed in the throes of passion.
It's a good idea to find a time when you are both relaxed to suggest bondage for the first time. One of the best ways of doing so is to suggest that you try it out on each other, rather than "Darling I'd like to hog-tie you tonight ..."
When you are both in agreement about what you want and are prepared, choose a safe word as mentioned above, get relaxed, get undressed and get down.
Where you go from there is up to you ...
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